So recently I have been challenged to let go of what other people thought about me. I must say that at first this is not something I thought would be holding me back. But the more I thought about it the more it became clear that I was looking for something that wasn't helpful for me with people that had nothing in common with me.
I started feeling like if I tried more it would become easier for us to click but nothing happened. So I realized that it doesn't matter how hard you try to get through to someone, if they don't want to let you in then you can't change that. All you can do is be a supporter on the side lines.
but don't keep that as judgement over them because it won't help you grow it will just hold you back.
Be careful of what you think about others because you never know what they are going through.
Just be thoughtful of your actions because you don't want to defend anyone and you don't want anyone to have a grudge against you.
Wednesday, September 14, 2011
Thursday, September 1, 2011
Thoughts.
Today I realized just how much I have been stubborn in my ways.
I thought it was all gonna be fine but today I realized that I am not fine and I need to make a change for the better, to grow, to love again, and to reach out for those in need. I have been caught in this web of emotions that I have made out of the way that I thought things should go but today I am making a change. The truth is if I ever want to move on and help then I need to let go and forgive those that have hurt me, even if they don't realize that they have hurt me I have held it against them and they don't even notice or realize that I have. I believe that in doing this it will help me move forward in what God has planned for me.
The more we hold on to things the more it hurts us and we might not even realize it until it gets too late. We need to own up to our mistakes and bring peace and grace into our lives to move forward.
We all are beautiful, creative, capable, and confident. So why don't we act like it?
This questions me all the time. I am going to start taking this to heart because it's so true.
<3
I thought it was all gonna be fine but today I realized that I am not fine and I need to make a change for the better, to grow, to love again, and to reach out for those in need. I have been caught in this web of emotions that I have made out of the way that I thought things should go but today I am making a change. The truth is if I ever want to move on and help then I need to let go and forgive those that have hurt me, even if they don't realize that they have hurt me I have held it against them and they don't even notice or realize that I have. I believe that in doing this it will help me move forward in what God has planned for me.
The more we hold on to things the more it hurts us and we might not even realize it until it gets too late. We need to own up to our mistakes and bring peace and grace into our lives to move forward.
We all are beautiful, creative, capable, and confident. So why don't we act like it?
This questions me all the time. I am going to start taking this to heart because it's so true.
<3
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